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  • Ways to Honor Your Dad at Your Wedding

    Ways to Honor Your Dad at Your Wedding

    Your wedding day is a great opportunity to give recognition to those who gave you unconditional love and support along your journey, from your first steps as a toddler to your ceremony. On the day you say “I do,” consider these ways to honor your dad at your Wedding. These tips from our friends at  brides.com will create special moments for your father, stepfather or father figure. Aside from having them walk you down the aisle. You wouldn’t be who you are today without them.

    A Special Dance

    Most weddings have the traditional father-daughter dance but you can take it a step further. If dad is not much of a dancer you can possibly spend some quality time together by attending dance lessons prior to the special dance. Either to learn to dance a little better or maybe even surprise everyone with a choreographed routine. Or you can surprise him with a sentimental song you both have a connection to.

    A Daddy-Daughter First Look

    First looks with your soon-to-be spouses have become a popular way to share a special moment together privately prior to walking down the aisle. So why not consider having a separate first look with your dad? He’ll probably be nervous pacing the halls waiting to see his little girl all dolled up for her big day anyway. By setting aside a few minutes for a pre ceremony moment with him you’ll not only create a memory that will last a lifetime, but it’s also a great photo op!

    An Unexpected Shout-Out

    Many times fathers of the bride will read a speech at the rehearsal dinner or a welcome speech at the wedding itself sharing memories and words of wisdom to his little girl. You can change it up a bit by instead giving him a special shout-out. You and your fiancé may want to take a moment to thank all of your parents, or anyone who made your special day possible and memorable just a minute or two of time to verbalize your love and appreciation could mean the world to him and the other parents.

    A Photo Surprise

    This may take just a little bit of planning, but it’s a fun and creative way to make dad feel special after the wedding. Coordinating with your photographer, create a sign or prop that says something sentimental like “I’ll always be your little girl”, “I loved you first”, or even something short like ”Thanks, Dad!” You can possibly pose  with your dad and while he is not looking you can hold the sign up. Like this when your photos come in he is given the sweetest surprise picture he will cherish forever.

    Ask Dad to Officiate

    What an honor to be asked to officiate your daughters wedding. It may take some preparation to become qualified but you can get ordained in a few minutes online. He would probably consider it the ultimate compliment to be asked to be the person who makes your marriage real. Dad will have the opportunity to share loving words and special moments with your guests while making your union official. You can work with dad to create the a special & personal ceremony. You will give him the honor to be a very special part of your wedding day.

    Something Borrowed from Dad

    Typically brides will borrow an item from their mom or a past bride to count as their something borrowed. But what father wouldn’t feel special if, you asked him to help out. Maybe you’d like to borrow one of dad’s handkerchiefs, or sew a cut-out heart from one of his old dress shirts into the lining of your dress. Or you can add a borrowed cufflink into the wrapped stem of your bridal bouquet. Think outside of the box, and there’s plenty of cute ways to incorporate your dad into the tradition.

  • Thoughtful Ways to Thank Your Parents

    Thoughtful Ways to Thank Your Parents

    Parents usually play a major part in the lives of brides & grooms. They’ve been with you through all the major milestones in your life. From high school & college graduations, birthdays, major life events, etc. It only feels right to thank them for helping couples get to this major milestone: their wedding day. Take this opportunity to remind them that they, no matter what, they will always be important to part of your life. Here are some suggestions for Thoughtful Ways to Thank Your Parents from BridalGuide.com.

    Special Message

    • On your wedding day you’ll be showered with gifts and special gestures all day.  Take this opportunity to give back to those closest to you. An embroidered handkerchief with a special message is a touching and useful gift. A special piece of jewelry, such as an engraved necklace, watch, or cufflinks is touching as well.

    Meaningful Token

    • Incorporate part of your mother’s gown, veil, or jewelry into your bouquet handle or gown. Attach or wear a meaningful token such as miniature-sized version of their wedding photo.

    Mini Display

    • If you don’t like the idea of cutting up your mother’s wedding gown, then you can put it on display. Create a mini display by showcasing your mother’s gown, grandmother’s gown, or any other special ladies’ dresses. This is a great way to decorate the walk up to the ceremony area.

    Great Picture

    • Parents love a great picture with their child your wedding is a great opportunity. When compiling your picture list for your photographer, ask them to take pictures with them to pay respect to Mom and Dad. Some ideas are a picture of you holding your parents’ wedding photos. Another would be a “first look” with Dad and a “last hug” with Mom before you tie the knot.

    Special Song

    • If you don’t have a song that’s special to the two of you, pay tribute to your parents by using their wedding song for your first dance. If you prefer to use another song, you could always play their wedding song later in the evening and dedicate it to them. Either way, it will be such a special tribute to them.

    Something Borrowed

    • If you’re having trouble selecting a cake topper, re-use the one from your parents’ wedding. It’s a great way to add a little something borrowed to your dessert tables. 

     

    All of the above are touching and thoughtful ways to thank your parents that they’ll most probably love.  But don’t forget that a simple handwritten thank-you note goes a long way and will always hold a special place in their hearts.